Realising Truth… Real Healing

Since concluding my Series on Your Journey to Being Whole in January, I have written here about Chi, the true energy of who you are, which can be swamped and hidden by all that we think about and experience. Across our World, this can happen in many different ways from not having time to think in our modern, busy lives, no time for the activities or the people we love, scared of being judged or humiliated for thinking differently to our culture or social group, to the shock at seeing or, even worse, experiencing some of the horrific actions or events in which people find themselves today and every day. I have been questioning whether the aim of Healing really is just about achieving that feeling of freedom, peace and joy? That feeling that everything is alright with the world? How can I feel that way when another is in so much distress or hardship? And why when apparently Whole, do I feel so sad and not joyful ?!

When an Idea Becomes Real… it’s no longer just an Idea! When you are on a Healing Journey, one of holistic self-development, you have realisations along the way, pieces of your life’s puzzle come together and you understand something and, as I said back in January, an idea becomes real. Wholeness itself is about being in touch with all aspects of yourself whether dark or light, looking at them honestly and bringing them together so they are no longer in conflict and causing you ill health or stress… But is your Whole Self joyful? Maybe not… there may have been very good reasons why your original complete puzzle of yourself became fragmented and adapted… And you, or your genetic heritage, made the best of things and carried on with life… So what is next on the Healing Journey…

Mind, Body & Chi What or who is sad? What or who is joyful? What or who is trying to decide what to do next? When you come together as your Whole Self, you may become aware of yourself in 3 different ways, all you but different qualities of you. These can be described as your Mind, your Body and your Chi. It is your Chi which when fully expressed brings you joy and fulfilment, it includes such ideas as your Spirit (Higher Will) and your Soul (Higher Love)… it is that inner smile when you as your Body may be feeling very frightened, angry or sad?! For most of us, healing the Mind is the hardest part of the Journey because it is this that has kept us safe and helped us adapt to difficult situations, hiding our natural effervescence somewhere along the way and in doing this disrupting the Body’s natural functioning. Only when your Mind can see Reality for what it truly is, beyond all the stories we create to help us understand that colour our lives, and you can bring in your Chi energy to express your True Self, can you truly heal your Body and all that it has experienced not only in itself but also as a consequence of the Healing Journey of your Mind and of your Chi. Learning what really matters to you is key. Be conscious of your choices. Seek resolution at every step <3

Your Journey to Being Whole… Realising Who You Are

This concludes my Series on Your Journey to Being Whole. It started with Realisation (June 2018) explaining that when an idea suddenly forms, there is a feeling of clarity and understanding about something… the puzzle has come together in your mind and a picture has formed… which then becomes another puzzle piece in a larger understanding… triggering a new Intention for personal growth. I shared with you how Intention shapes your Journey and that Non-Judgement and Non-Interference are powerful catalysts to keeping you growing. Non-Judgement understands that we are all on a Journey and we all have vulnerabilities and key life lessons; Non-Interference allows each of us to follow our Life Paths as clearly as possible and in a way that teaches us our own lessons but also interacts with others to be part of theirs. As we become more Empowered Individuals, we then become more aware of our Relationships, not just with others but also with ourselves and whether our life on all levels nurtures or drains us. At this stage, understanding about having Empowering Relationship Energy becomes key, taking self-responsibility that your actions empower others and learning to transform others disempowering behaviour into something positive for both of you.

Every step you take in your self-understanding re-empowers the parts of you that have been distorted by your past, this life and inheritances, and eventually it will be stored in your Being as Experience rather than with any attachment or reliving it in the Now. This to me is the Healing Journey and Lessons repeat on different levels until you have covered every ‘Module in the Course’ !

Once you have healed enough in your Outer Relationships, a deeper Inner Journey begins because you are ready to discover what really matters to you, not just what others think is important or what your genetics dictates. You will start to experience your deeper connection with everything… bringing real feelings, real emotions and can be quite a personal rollercoaster but is the beginnings of being truly authentic and really Real in your Life. An Attuning process follows where all aspects of your Life relate more honestly with each other and underlying issues may come to the surface to be resolved rather than being tolerated or kept hidden.

When an Idea Becomes Real, it’s No Longer Just an Idea!! Whilst you are still healing who you truly are, life can feel very uncomfortable however positive your goals. I started this Series with: “Wholeness..? …you realise you feel peaceful inside and you are part of a beautiful orchestral World where we each have a place and a part to play…” This is Real Freedom, not just an Idea… Life inspires you, engages you and you want to do more 🙂 Face every lesson life sends you. Remember you are on a Journey. Realise Who You Are… press Life’s Play button 🙂

… Previous in this Series ‘Your Journey to Being Whole…’

 >  Introduction

 >  Realisation

 >  Intention – Non-Judgement

 >  Intention – Non-Interference  

 >  Intention – Empowering Relationships

 >  The Healing Journey

 >  The Inner Work

Interested in support for your Journey? In association with the South Gloucestershire Wellbeing College , there is a FREE local Monthly Group ‘Your Healing Space’, which introduces and supports your first steps to Wholeness.  So if you are interested in holistic support for your Journey,  click links to find out more 🙂

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“What is a Real Woman?” ??

Came across this article about ‘Real Men’ and was wondering why we don’t see similar ones for ‘Real Women’ … ?

What underpins how we relate to the World and in our close relationships is our inner definitions of what it is to be a ‘man’ or ‘woman’.  These have grown over evolutionary times and contain deeply embedded ways of being, growing all the time. The above article explains a strong, grounded, confident, reassured man. So if you were talking about a strong, grounded, confident, reassured woman – would the article be the same?  If Men and Women were both truly empowered, would such an article be written like this at all?  Maybe or maybe not?

Both ‘Men’ and ‘Women’ have pressures on them to be ‘this’ and ‘that’… equality and inner growth is not just for one or the other.  There is much said in the Spiritual Media about the growth in the Divine Feminine at this time in evolution but this does not relate just to Women. Men are part of this picture too and are also relearning ways of relating… hence the above article.  The growth in the Divine Feminine is about Re-Empowering Women AND Men.  It is about rising above the Energy Systems that create our relationships – Men are locked into these just as much as Women.  It is about establishing empowered personal spaces where choices can be made by Women AND by Men, in the moment, for the highest benefit to all concerned, bringing about a joyful resolution for all.

Ask yourself ‘What does a relationship look like between 2 empowered people?’… Are there rigid stereotypical roles? I am starting to appreciate that it goes beyond that… When 2 empowered people or a group of empowered people work together, there seems to be a flow much like waves in an Ocean… up and down, sometimes swirling, sometimes calm, sometimes rough but always there, supporting life, supporting each other, always flowing… never a desert… always evolving… some taking the lead then others, all being themselves, expressing their own unique ways of being…

And what really is the difference between being ‘Empowered’ and being ‘Powerful’?  I will leave that for another time…