Frustrated by it? Enjoying it? Challenged by it? Confused by it? Overwhelmed by it? Disappointed by it? Drained by it? Angered by it? Frightened by it?! … How many more ways does ‘Love’ manifest and influence our lives?!

WHAT IS LOVE?” This question was one of 2014’s most popular web searches and so it appears to continue to be something that fascinates or maybe perplexes many of us. Love is a ‘Feeling’, which may sound obvious but what are Feelings? Which of your five primary senses detects Feelings? Is a Feeling seen, heard, smelt, tasted or touched? No? Yes? What Feels? So what is a Feeling?


Feelings are what make us Human; they put us in touch with a deeper level of who we are. We are not robots; we all consider our actions relative to the situation and the people involved. There is no golden rulebook that determines the same correct response given a certain set of circumstances. Every situation even if it looks the same will be different because each of us is unique. Every situation will be unique. Feelings are far more complex than just assessing sensory feedback; they involve us perceiving also what a particular situation means to us as an individual and then responding as such. Understanding your Feelings requires a particular level of consciousness and awareness; it is a skill to be learnt and is rarely an innate ability.


Love is the biggest Feeling you can have! It incorporates the Love you have for every part of your Life… it is not just about Romantic Love on Valentine’s Day, or the Love you feel for your children or your partner, your siblings, your parents, or the Love for your friends… or your job, your favourite interest or hobby, or your pets, your Love of certain foods, your car / bike… Love in its entirety includes all of these and the rest… and all the inter-relationships between all these as well. Magical and overwhelming all at once. When we ‘Fall In Love’, our whole Life and the World around us takes on an exciting new Feel – everything is more colourful, more beautiful, more joyful, more wonderful…

Love is a Puzzle… If you can complete it then everything – You, your Life, all your relationships will be sorted… or will they? The paradox of Love is that on completing your puzzle, the boundaries shift and you realise there is more to the puzzle than you thought?! Keep growing into your Puzzle, enjoy the euphoria, those blissful times when everything is right with the World… embrace the new puzzle pieces that appear and remember that ‘Love’ is far bigger than any of us can imagine; there will always be new experiences… Love your Life <3

Something for the Soul-Seekers…

I usually write to share something about how healing works and the mechanisms involved when it takes place but have recently felt inspired by others to write something more personal and maybe help validate some of your own Soul-Seeking journeys in search of that missing something, wholeness, health solution, whatever has driven you to date.

Something for the Soul Seekers - YHS Sept 2013

My journey started in my teens with a fascination of how the world worked and how it was modelled by science and maths; just seemed incredible to me how an equation told you how fast a car would be going after a certain distance accelerating at a certain rate. This lead me to training as an Aerodynamics Engineer, which brought me to Airbus at Filton in Bristol. But after 10 years I was still missing something and I ended up travelling a bit and retraining in Sports Therapy, my attention being drawn to human mechanics rather than planes. Then, in Bristol, I discovered Kinesiology, which felt much like that equation in my teens – an explanation and a means to understanding what was going on in the subtle world – the missing part of my personal puzzle. Others see my life path and wonder why I did not stay an engineer but to me, looking back, at each stage I needed to step outside the box in which I found myself and now it all fits together perfectly – having taught me about the Mind, the Body and about the Subtle and how all this works together to connect us within ourselves, to each other and to the World. After over a decade working with Kinesiology, I continue to be challenged in how complex we as humans are and it satisfies my continued fascination and intrigue with nature, physics and health to still be able to have questions that need answers! And also to keep getting answers which lead me forward, raising my understanding to another level leading to more questions…

I hear in science all the time about aspects of understanding that are missing, holes in the maths that need assumptions, outcomes of experiments that elude explanation then someone makes a new discovery… science steps outside its box and moves into a greater understanding… humanity evolves.. and the cycle perpetuates… bigger box… more new to be discovered…

Where I used to question my obsession with seeking understanding about the World around me and within, I have not been able to heal myself out of it 🙂 I now realise that it is just who I am and it keeps me interested in life and fascinated by all there is yet to learn… my advice now to anyone is to keep asking questions, seek understanding, it is there 🙂 Keep climbing out of the boxes you find yourself in and reconnect with the wonder life has to offer <3

Your Field as a Puzzle and its Holes

I like to imagine a person’s Field with a capital ‘F’ (subtle and physical, everything about them) as a puzzle with interlocking pieces of many different shapes and sizes. Of course this is multi-dimensional beyond all our understanding but simplifying it to a 2D puzzle at this stage is enough for explanation.  Consciously you may only be aware of one or two pieces, sub-consciously you are aware of more, superconsciously (unconsciously) you are aware of far more. If not aware of all of your puzzle, you can still be influenced by it and different parts of it will connect and make itself known as and when it needs to for your learning/experience/ choice/ intention, etc.

The Healing Wholeness process will intentionally follow ‘Highest Good’ signposts in your Field to rediscover and reintegrate your hidden puzzle pieces with the intention of healing what is ‘baggage’ and uncovering the beauty of your original puzzle in its entirety and finding more of the Truth of who you are.  Puzzle pieces can take the form of many structures depending on the information being stored and how you think about it.   I will talk about Loops at a later date, but here I must mention Holes, which are apparent areas of nothingness where a Puzzle piece should be.  Much like Black Holes we see in the Universe, they are a structure which appears to hold nothing but in fact holds vasts amounts of hidden information. Black Holes are not fully understood yet but on a fascinating episode of BBC’s Wonders of the Universe, they are being investigated and modelled with Maths. Mathematicians suspect that the holes are a hologram, which is a 2D surface holding 3D information, which also fits well with how they appear in my experience with working with subtle Fields. I have also heard that they are finding ‘black holes’ in our physical brains…

A subtle hole may itself be hidden but will be in your reality as something you believe is part of your life but you never really connect to it. You might be able to see and touch it but you never really experience it and feel it is part of your being.  If hidden well, it may never even cross your mind to think about it.  An example of this is Work, your hidden career, attempts to get the job you want but nothing ever progresses about it, or not even knowing what job you want.

A large chunk of your puzzle may be hidden in a hole. This also gives one explanation for random behaviour or life-changing events.  Holes may attach temporarily depending on their wiring and only show up under certain circumstances – like with certain people, eating certain foods/medicines/recreational drugs or when under stress – you will behave in a different way to ‘normal’.  In the case of significant events, a hole and its contents may suddenly connect to your conscious field and your ways of behaving /your perspective of life may change in an instant because suddenly you have new information as a reference and it will integrate with your current experience of who you are.

This is a huge topic but the effects of connecting to holes or any other structures can be exhilarating or very unsettling. Through Wholeness Healing, holes are reintegrated using ‘Highest Good’ intention and healing methodology. It may not always be a comfortable ride but the experience is for you and is directed by your higher energies.  Once integrated, the truth at the source of the hole, hidden behind the old wounds and ‘baggage’, will reveal itself and be a positive, joyful addition to your puzzle.

Happy Hunting 🙂