Feeling Vulnerable?… Understanding the Energy Form…

There is an advert on TV at the moment about bullying where a young lad is sat alone in his bedroom, looking very sad as his phone keeps vibrating as he receives text after text… it always pulls at my heart-strings! It is promoting a website ‘www.internetmatters.org’ which advises about safeguarding children and how to open the conversation with your child and how you can help them. Unfortunately this pattern of disempowering behaviour does not only apply to childhood. One of the first Energy Forms I ever learnt about was how a vulnerability can work against us; it is one of the most fundamental influences on our basic behaviours and possibly the key factor in all our hardships and distress. How does vulnerability appear? How does it work against us? Are we really vulnerable? Can we heal it? Do we need to heal it or is it just a wonderful part of who we are that makes us human? And if so how do we live an empowering fulfilled life?

Our Vulnerabilities Limit Us… Since I started questioning what I really wanted in life and why I seemed to be going round in circles, I began to realise my life had patterns… ways of being that were automated, situations that always played out in the same way, behaviour that was expected, my own expectations and others’ expectations. I found that I was going along a path and suddenly it was no longer there… friends / boyfriends / jobs… suddenly changed and I’d be starting from scratch….again!? Sometimes my decision, sometimes the other’s, sometimes just circumstances. I enjoyed this ‘freedom’ until I started to question why I could not move to the next level in my life, further fulfilment and growth in relationships and a career. This is when my fascination with Energy Healing started because it began to give me answers and help me see my vulnerabilities, which had prevented my natural self-development, and gave me the tools to face and change the limiting patterns step-by-step…

Why are we Vulnerable? Vulnerability is defined as ‘in danger of being hurt physically or emotionally’, ‘weak or unprotected’. The Energy Form of a Vulnerability is a Relationship Behaviour Pattern that disempowers some and makes others feel more powerful. If we could isolate our energy from everything else, we would not be vulnerable but what is the deeper cause that makes vulnerability a possibility..?

What are you Sensitive about?… What terrifies you or makes you furious?? The logic behind these extreme responses can be very complex and can sometimes be considered irrational but we all have Sensitivities and they are integral to how we behave. Either we express these feelings easily or we bury or disguise them, sometimes very effectively and sometimes it makes us ill or even behave in unexpected ways.

But are you really Terrified or Furious? Last month I wrote about our Qualities of Body, Mind and Chi… any situation that makes you Vulnerable, pulls at your Sensitivities, is not Chi, is not you and you are caught up in a Behaviour Pattern. Choose to see the Truth of a situation, look honestly at the facts… is it really terrifying or infuriating? Step back within, reconnect with your Chi… wait for inspiration… allow yourself time… If someone else is vulnerable, choose to support their process rather than challenge them… and help them find their truth 🙂

2017!! Found it difficult to plan the Future? Fractals & Chaos Theory may help! :)

We seem to be living through a time where everything seems a little more unpredictable… a little more chaotic… Brexit, Trump, Syria..?! What is the World gonna be like in 2017?! …let alone beyond that… Have you found it difficult to plan into the Future… this year, next year… Reality may just seem too uncertain and unreliable. Are you living in the moment because that is all you can do?! Recently for me, this idea of chaos has been apparent in my healing work. We, as Individuals, have always dealt with a certain level of unpredictability and still got on with life but it seems far more unsettling to many of all ages at this time in history. I have found that during healing sessions, this chaotic energy is being manifest more often and is actually disrupting the ‘normal’ cushioning inherent in making future plans. In thinking about this, I have been drawn to reading about Chaos Theory… and also Fractals… all will become clear… possibly! 🙂

Chaos Theory  When Science realised that the Theory of Relativity (Space-Time Cause and Effect) did not answer all their questions, Quantum Mechanics was discovered and in more recent decades, there is Chaos Theory. This is the science of surprises, of the non-linear and the unpredictable. In 1961, in the beginnings of Chaos Theory, Edward Lorenz was modelling the earth’s weather and found that a change at 1 millionth of a decimal place of his input conditions made his predictions useless – he called this the Butterfly Effect – a butterfly flaps its wings and 6 months later a storm happens in Mexico!

Fractals and Chaos In 1979, Benoit Mandelbrot started using fractal maths with Chaos Theory to show how seemingly chaotic systems actually had some degree of order! Complex visual patterns (such as the picture insert) could be created from simple rules and natural phenomena like clouds and shorelines actually followed these rules too… It has also been seen in financial systems, ecosystems, and, more relevant here, human societies! Although predictions can be made, they are inherently unreliable, due to the Butterfly Effect and hence why weather forecasts still can only be short-term and your future plans may not pan out as expected. So how do you plan to achieve a Personal Goal amidst Chaos? You can! Visualise your Goal very clearly…

Chaotic Circumstances? Fantastic!!?? 🙂 If you find your life to be a little chaotic however clear your Goal and Intention, it is actually showing that you are at a very exciting phase in your Personal Growth… chaos in Life seems to appear when experiencing very deeply held patterns in Reality… Chaos being when events are for no real reason, out of the blue, crisis after crisis which appear unrelated, annoying or significant life problems which seem to have no clear way forward to resolution… these times can be tough >:-| Be assured there are patterns afoot, only feeling and seeming like chaos! Observe your life and become aware of your patterns… a clear real path will at some point form towards resolution!

Dig in… Be strong !!   Happy 2017 🙂  Wishing us all Real Clarity!!